My Daily diet….
So I've been thinking about lately what it is that makes us
go…..you know, what makes life bearable for you? I personally am the happiest clam alive as
long as I know my family is doing well...the true family that I care about on a
day to day basis. I have some feelings
for some family that shall be left alone during this post…(WHEW, you should all
breath nicely now!!) But what does it
take to make the day worthwhile for you?
I think I need to be challenged mentally on a daily basis. Not just the OK I need to think about what
we are having for dinner but the thought process that makes you wonder about
things like organic gardening, clean air, clean living, healthy choices, and
making thing work in a day to day choice mode…
I've found that I am enjoying living in Belize so much. It challenges me to think thing through. An example is the “Washing Machine”
issue. We bought a washing machine (not
your typical washing machine but one of these cheap Chinese things that hardly
works but does something more than the wash board does for me, at least it’s not rocks!) This thing needs to be hooked up into the
water (I used a garden hose to put water in it) and then it drains. Now, I don’t want to do my laundry
outside. I have too many projects going
on and although most of the women in the village do their laundry outside,
which makes it easy for them to not worry about draining, they just let the
water run on the ground… I have this issue where the drain site I am using (the
shower area) sits higher up than the machine does…the draining is done by good
old fashioned earth pull so therefore, I am a little short. Normally I try but Charlie does pull up the
machine so it drains… I have been
steadily asking him for a “box on wheels” to put this machine on so it would
make it more mobile to move around (it’s light enough though that I could carry
it) and make it elevated enough that I don’t have to pick it up to drain it
off. Sounds simple enough, right?
Nope, nothing has been done about this for weeks
though. I am frustrated and want to
voice my frustration and feeling like I want to regurgitate some of the diet I've taken in in frustration….( see my point?) Now the heartburn is setting in and the diet
is unbalanced. I needed to step back and
think things through…..see it’s simple enough to just put the machine inside
the shower stall on a couple of boards so it’s above the drain and the water
isn’t near the long cord for the plug…..now why didn't I think about it
before? Because my diet was unbalanced
and that caused me to be unbalanced…..right????
So here’s the other part of it. I am finding that the one thing I miss so
dearly from my life before and the life I am living right now are my
friends. You know, the people that you talk to briefly during the
day? The jokesters at the office that
play the pranks or the person that you call to say “You won’t believe what
happened to me today” people. It’s not
that I want to move back or anything because I am loving it here. But my social life isn't what it used to be
anymore. I miss my Bridget and our
coffee sessions where we would talk about the work that needed to be done and
what had transpired in the previous hours…. Don’t’ get me wrong, I do have
friends here. There are special people
that I have met that I wouldn't trade the experience of meeting them for
anything!
Now I am trying to adjust my daily diet but it needs a slow
adjustment. If anyone is up to this task
I think I am. I know that on a daily
basis I talk to people (YES, more than Charlie!) here but they aren’t on an
even keel with me yet. It’s like eating
meat and potatoes and switching to rice and beans…you have to give the diet
time to work it’s kinks out…..Is there some way you could enhance your daily
diet? Could you meet someone new, add a
dollop of clotted cream to your diet?
Ah, but it is rocks! Don't lie! :P
ReplyDeleteAlso, women typically base a lot of their views on life on the relationships they share, something that men don't. So your adjustment is completely normal, Dad is normal too...just don't tell him I said that!